Thursday, December 10, 2015

Adjusting to life in Swaziland


It’s hard to believe how quickly the months have gone by. Mapile and I have been married for nearly 4 months now! Much of that time has been very slow for me, as I have been waiting for my nursing registration and Swazi nursing license to be processed. The good news is that a few weeks ago my paperwork was approved! I now have what I need to legally work as a nurse here in Swaziland. Now I am in the process of looking into jobs in the area and trying to find a place that would be a good fit for me.

The past few months of waiting have been really good ones. I think that the Lord knew it was good for me to have a few months for cultural adjustment and rest after the big move and the wedding. Every day looks different here, with different visitors who show up at the door or tasks that need to be accomplished. Many days are filled with the monotonous tasks of doing laundry, sweeping the floor, cooking, doing dishes, etc. Almost every day that I am home, our sweet neighbor girl named Precious stops by the house. I started giving her sweets awhile back when she came to the house because I wanted to be the cool Auntie that lives upstairs… though now we have established a routine, so I know that when I see Precious at my front door, or in my kitchen, then I’ve got to find some kind of snack to give her. She is a great, and very cute neighbor. 

Precious
Another neighbor - Siphesithle, watching a movie with me while I made taco shells in the living room
At the end of October we had graduation at the Bible College. Mapile was the MC for the day, and 9 students graduated. Ever since then it’s been pretty quiet around here.

November flew by without many big events, though we did have several opportunities to host visitors. Mapile’s brother, Menzi, came to visit for one weekend. Another weekend we had the privilege of hosting Mapile’s Gogo for the whole weekend. While she was with us, some of Maphile’s aunts, and his uncle came to have a meal with us. In Swazi culture, the new bride in the family is called the Makoti, and she usually does most of the cooking and caring for her new family. Feeding everyone that one meal felt like a big task to me, and I’m thankful that I don’t have to cook like that all the time. 
We also went to visit Gogo and the kids who stay with her at her house several times.  

At Gogo's house
Four of the boys that stay with Gogo - Lungelo, Sethu, Bayanda, and Sithembiso

Little Fezo - the youngest of the kids who stay with Gogo

Some of our visitors - these are some of the youth from our church at Mphosi. They came to play soccer and watch a movie at our house. 
At the end of November we celebrated Thanksgiving with the missionaries on campus - the Cheney family, the Crofts, and one of the Zimbabwean students on campus. 


December has already been an eventful month. One of the biggest events was that we got a car! I could have written an entire blog on buying a car in Swaziland… but I wouldn’t want to bore you all to death with the long, confusing details of it all. It was a four day process to get all the paperwork we needed, and we spent many hours waiting in lines. Now we are so thankful to have a registered car that we can get around with! The past four months of taking public transport have taught me a lot about the huge blessing a car can be. We get to leave at the time we want to, put heavy bags in the back, and we don’t have to wait indefinitely at the bus stop to try to find a bus with empty seats going the direction we are hoping to go. Our car has also been a blessing to others even though we have had it less than a week! We’ve been able to give people lifts to where they are going, and even help out one of our friends who was stuck on the side of the road with no gas.


We are getting excited now because we are headed to Uganda on Monday to visit my parents for Christmas. We will stay there until the beginning of January and then head back here. Neither of us have ever been to Uganda, so we are looking forward to experiencing new things together.

Mapile is working on his last assignment for his degree in theology. He should be done with that assignment by the time we leave for Uganda. We are looking forward to next year, when Mapile will work for the Bible College and help fill in wherever there is a need on campus. I am also looking forward to working as a nurse in Swaziland and seeing what opportunities arise in that area for me.

Our African nativity
Mapile wearing his traditional Swazi attire for one of the Bible School Activities
Thank you for your prayers and for your encouragement! We really appreciate the way so many people faithfully pray for us. We look forward to seeing what God has in store for us as we follow hard after Him.

“Let all that I am praise the Lord; with my whole heart, I will praise his holy name. Let all that I am praise the Lord; may I never forget the good things he does for me. He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases. He redeems me from death and crowns me with love and tender mercies. He fills my life with good things. My youth is renewed like the eagle’s. The Lord gives righteousness and justice to all who are treated unfairly… The Lord is compassionate and merciful, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love.” – Psalm 103:1-6, 8 NLT